In this episode, Brenda and Kelly talk through their processes and styles of writing bible study curriculums and tackle these questions: Can anyone write them? What is essential? What are the different styles and what should be the goal? What does the process look like and how do you get started?
We pray that this conversation encourages you to continue to lead with humility and transparency by the filling and empowerment of the Spirit.
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[00:00:11] It's something about that, you know
[00:00:13] And I think about it's handling God's word and we need to see to that
[00:00:16] You know we think of 2nd Timothy 2 15 be diligent to present yourself to prove
[00:00:20] I got a worker who does not need be ashamed rightly dividing the word of truth
[00:00:25] And so I don't know what I feel like when I write I take that even more serious somehow because it's written. It's not going away
[00:00:33] Hey and welcome to When She Leads a podcast for women in ministry
[00:00:38] I'm your host Brenda Leavenworth
[00:00:39] And I want to consider the complexities and realities of leading as a woman in ministry together
[00:00:45] Kelly from team when she leads is joining me today, and we have a really unique topic today. Don't we Kelly?
[00:00:51] Yeah, we do I love this topic
[00:00:53] Writing Bible studies
[00:00:56] Can anyone write them? What's essential? What are the different styles? What should be our goal?
[00:01:02] What are the processes that we go through that you go through want to talk through that and what have we learned along the way?
[00:01:08] Because you and I have both been writing Bible studies for our church is for quite some time
[00:01:13] And so I want to know what you learned and I'll share what I've learned the little bit that I've learned along the way
[00:01:19] So how does someone get started? These are some of the questions that we hope to answer
[00:01:25] Today, so I was thinking about this and I was thinking okay. Why are we having this conversation?
[00:01:30] Anyways, and I think that when I was a young pastor's wife and feeling called to write Bible studies
[00:01:37] I had no idea. I remember the first time God called me to write just arguing with them like
[00:01:43] Lord, you know like I have trouble writing a pamphlet and
[00:01:47] You want me to write a Bible study or a book or something like that?
[00:01:51] Like you're gonna have to tell me what to say
[00:01:54] But the reason I got there is because and maybe you can share how you got in your place to write
[00:02:01] but I was using studies like Beth Moore some others popular studies and
[00:02:05] I just felt like my women weren't getting what God wanted them not that those aren't great studies
[00:02:11] Right, they didn't work for us. Yeah, and it wasn't our voice. And so I just felt like no
[00:02:16] I think I need to write something that's just in line with our vision with our direction with our values and
[00:02:23] Something I had a heart for my ladies to not only get a study that they could do but also learn how to study the Bible for themselves
[00:02:32] Right, so that's sort of what got me. I felt like I had to wean them
[00:02:36] We were doing Beth more for a while and I felt like she spoon-fed my ladies
[00:02:40] And I just I I literally thought about like I need to wean them from this type of right teaching so that they could do their own
[00:02:47] But what right? What was your process?
[00:02:49] You know, I mean it's a little bit different early on when I was really young actually young
[00:02:55] I was an assistant pastor's wife and
[00:02:58] going to
[00:02:59] Like k Arthur's seminars on inductive Bible study and leading and stuff like that
[00:03:04] I really felt like the Lord had put on my heart that he'd wanted me to write studies
[00:03:10] I wasn't the necessarily the pastor's life, but I felt he was calling me to do that. I
[00:03:17] Probably should have kept it to myself
[00:03:18] But I remember being at a conference and sharing it with a bunch of older pastors live saying
[00:03:23] I think that the Lord might be calling me to to do this and they laughed at me
[00:03:28] And I was like no it was not nice and it just was like, oh my gosh
[00:03:32] Who do I think I am why would I think I'm supposed to be called to write so and because of the insecurities that I have
[00:03:38] That stopped me for for a while and then
[00:03:42] When my husband took over as pastor, so like almost 35 years ago whenever that was
[00:03:47] um, I just
[00:03:50] still wanted to write but I
[00:03:53] Probably was still getting over those insecurities. So I started using studies
[00:03:57] Like you said Beth more different ones a lot of different ones that were good
[00:04:01] A lot of k-Arthur's too
[00:04:03] Joyful life joyful living whatever and just using them and just never quite felt like again, they're great studies
[00:04:10] but they weren't
[00:04:11] Hitting the needs of the women that I that we were ministering to
[00:04:15] And so then I just remember asking the Lord at one retreat because I was teaching a lot
[00:04:20] But I wasn't writing and I was kind of complaining to the Lord because I thought okay
[00:04:24] I thought I was supposed to write and I'm not doing it now
[00:04:27] Am I supposed to and he gave me that verse that says in the psalms my
[00:04:30] My tongue is a pen of a ready writer and he was showing me your teaching now
[00:04:36] And a lot of what you write will be coming out of your teaching and kind of like be patient
[00:04:40] And then I was and then probably about a year and a half after that. I just felt like, you know what I'm
[00:04:45] I'm I really feel like I'm called to do this and I guess that's where I
[00:04:49] At the time a lot of people like if you're the pastor's wife
[00:04:53] Like it was a give you needed to write and I
[00:04:57] Didn't feel that way because I feel like writing is a gift like teaching is a gift and
[00:05:02] Being a worship leader is a gift. So I really do feel like you need to be called
[00:05:07] And that's what I would encourage anybody right some people like I just want to write a book
[00:05:11] And it's like do you have something to say? No, I just want to write a book
[00:05:14] I
[00:05:15] I know people that say that to you and I just feel like it's a lot of work
[00:05:18] It is a lot of work, but I think writing bible studies. It's a calling you have to feel called to and so
[00:05:23] I just started writing. I remember the first book I ever wrote
[00:05:27] Was first Corinthians and it was the longest
[00:05:30] Stinking thing that you've ever seen because we talked about that some of the things that you've learned
[00:05:35] I guess I'm jumping ahead, but I felt like everything I studied
[00:05:39] Uh, you had to be down not understanding part of it was probably just for me or the process
[00:05:45] So I also in the beginning sat down with a lot of different
[00:05:49] Harvest bible study fellowship all different people who were writing
[00:05:53] To ask a lot of questions and to find out why do you do it like that? And how do you do that and that and
[00:05:59] Then realize like I have to come up with my own voice. These were great tips, but so that was a whole process too
[00:06:05] I don't really know if that answered the question, but there you have it
[00:06:08] Yeah, I think I think though it stems from a heart of wanting
[00:06:13] To fulfill something that God has called us to do and then we say okay, lord
[00:06:19] We we're feeling this calling confirmed
[00:06:21] Now how or when
[00:06:24] What right, you know all the different things and and people write different kinds of studies some people write topical studies
[00:06:31] God was calling for me. God was calling us to just take the books of the bible
[00:06:36] We've been as a women's ministry here at reliance. We've been working through
[00:06:40] The epistles and we're almost done and it's probably taken like I feel like five years
[00:06:45] But we've gone through all the epistles in this next year
[00:06:48] We will finish all of them and so it's just taking taking a book of the bible
[00:06:54] And then writing questions, but like you like when I first started I wanted to put everything I learned in
[00:07:00] And and killing my ladies. I just wanted to write every deep question and have them look up every word
[00:07:06] And I found that I was um
[00:07:09] Taking the students on my journey
[00:07:12] Like the way the Holy Spirit was leading me through that
[00:07:14] And so the I was writing too deep
[00:07:18] And I was trying to take them through my journey
[00:07:20] So I was using like too many commentaries trying to get them to a place
[00:07:25] Where the Holy Spirit was maybe not taking them
[00:07:29] So I had to learn how to come up to like kind of that 30 000 foot view. Yeah, and let him um
[00:07:36] Let him take them on his journey, right like do more overview questions
[00:07:42] Help them learn how to
[00:07:44] Um observe interpret and apply the study for themselves
[00:07:49] And then God could take them on their journey whatever they were going through
[00:07:53] And I found that they would get confused when it was my journey
[00:07:56] I had a point that God was taking me down
[00:07:58] But then I had to try to explain that point in writing and it would get lost and so
[00:08:03] That helped me grow as a writer. That's good because then I learned I think
[00:08:08] 20 years ago homework used to be heavier too
[00:08:12] Like it was longer. There was more days. I remember Beth Morse homework is like 45 minutes of homework a day
[00:08:18] Yeah, mine too. Mine's probably longer than
[00:08:21] Yeah, and I just realized like busy moms. I was cutting people out of my out of the um, yeah
[00:08:27] Opportunity right to learn God's word because I was just making the bar like too high too long
[00:08:33] So that's I think for me one of the biggest lessons was just like coming above it
[00:08:38] doing more observation questions
[00:08:41] Then asking a few questions about interpretation and then adding some personal questions
[00:08:46] I I really try to keep it pretty simple. So yeah, what's your process knowing your audience like you said, right?
[00:08:53] You can't
[00:08:55] You know not not everyone can do an hour homework a day
[00:08:58] It just depends what season of life you're in and even the season as far as your spirituality
[00:09:03] If someone's just saved or they've been saved 20 years like I don't know
[00:09:06] It's just different and so I think that's part of the challenge is knowing your audience and what is capable if you're writing a lesson
[00:09:12] And no one ever comes
[00:09:14] With it all done
[00:09:16] I think I I was stubborn at first. It's like they need to get this done
[00:09:20] You know and then realizing if no one can get the homework done
[00:09:23] I have a problem here, right because what good is that if they can't do it
[00:09:27] They can always go deeper on their own right or you could add a digging deeper type section or something
[00:09:33] Challenges we do I I've written a lot of different things
[00:09:37] We do
[00:09:38] I I think one of my favorites always and I think I felt like I had to do what you said just books of the bible
[00:09:44] Which is great. Um, I did I have done some topicals. We've done various Psalms, which I've loved
[00:09:51] We've hop skipped and jumped through the Psalms on different ones. I've done
[00:09:56] Like ladies we called them life lessons from the ladies and they were all topical on women from the bible both good women
[00:10:03] Quote bad women
[00:10:04] So we had life lessons from the ladies part one and then the next year was life lessons from the ladies part two
[00:10:10] And then we will interchange it
[00:10:13] With a book study. That's that's I feel comfortable in that, you know, that's my history right now. We're doing
[00:10:20] It stemmed from a retreat that we did but they're all the one another's
[00:10:24] It's called one another's and every week and I've written it
[00:10:27] It's on a different one another in scripture and it has I don't know what is going on
[00:10:33] but my women have loved it and have embraced it and
[00:10:37] You know a scriptually we define it. What does it mean?
[00:10:40] What places in scripture do we see this practice, you know
[00:10:44] In a good way in a bad way and then obviously how are we called to practice it?
[00:10:48] And what is it?
[00:10:48] what is this one mean and
[00:10:51] I think what's been fun is that if someone's just got saved or someone's been saved for a long time
[00:10:57] It it can be as deep or as practical kind of as you want it
[00:11:01] And we've just seen the Lord do something incredible this year through that study not not in the way that I'm writing it
[00:11:07] I'm saying just in the topic. So I think it's fun to change it up
[00:11:12] I've done two different regular books the books that you buy and do
[00:11:16] Never was happy with them some ladies loved them. It's not my
[00:11:19] I I didn't like mine that I chose. So, you know, we've done that a few times and and
[00:11:25] They they always do fall a little short for me personally. I do like like summer book clubs and stuff, but we're getting off topic
[00:11:32] Book clubs are good. That's a little bit. But clubs are good
[00:11:35] But I like what you're saying because really what you're doing is you're teaching them how to take like a
[00:11:39] systematic theological approach to the bible like
[00:11:42] Okay, so we might be in first Corinthians, but you know if we're talking about
[00:11:47] Idolatry well, what does the whole bible say about idolatry?
[00:11:50] So if you do a topical study, then you have like an overview of like, okay
[00:11:55] What does this whole picture look like? Yeah
[00:11:57] When we take these 66 books and look at a topic and it's fun to change it up, you know
[00:12:03] I think it's fun to in the one study. I did I included like
[00:12:07] uh in the back
[00:12:10] For a while everybody was into those coloring pages and I just included them in like
[00:12:15] I'm not a colorer, but like in the back of the bible or crossword puzzles
[00:12:19] We just added things for their own fun and that was fun. I just think that didn't take away from the actually study part
[00:12:25] It was just fun things to add so but I think knowing your audience is knowing your women
[00:12:29] Yeah, and I think writing a bible study. I think it's very serious to me
[00:12:34] It I think teaching the bible is serious
[00:12:37] But writing it like the words on the paper that will be there forever
[00:12:41] I have something about that, you know, and I think about it's handling god's word
[00:12:45] And we need to see there's that you know
[00:12:47] We think of second Timothy 2 15 be diligent to present yourself to proved by god a worker
[00:12:52] Who does not need be ashamed rightly dividing the word of truth?
[00:12:55] And so I don't know what I feel like when I write
[00:12:58] I take that even more serious somehow because it's written. It's not going away
[00:13:02] If I say something dumb I can say well, I didn't mean like you can explain it
[00:13:06] When you're writing it
[00:13:08] Yeah, and yeah
[00:13:10] You and I talked about another thing and in the differences in the way we write and you had asked me the other day
[00:13:15] Like do you write out like commentary or do big explanations?
[00:13:19] And I said I used to but now I
[00:13:23] Sometimes when I'm starting a chapter I might give like I'll give an introduction for the book like one page
[00:13:28] Overview and some days I might starting a new day. I might give a paragraph
[00:13:34] I rarely if I want to use commentaries
[00:13:37] I'll
[00:13:38] I'll try to tell them to go to it because like I said one of my goals is to teach them how to use
[00:13:44] software
[00:13:45] And where they can find studies how to define words
[00:13:49] So we want to teach them so we give a page on like how to use this study and all the resources and and all of that
[00:13:57] So that they can then if they want to look something up, then they go back and go
[00:14:01] Oh, wow, I learned how to do this which I think is really important for me another thing that I have to
[00:14:07] Do and if you're writing and you think oh, I'm not a writer like I think all the time
[00:14:12] I still don't think I'm a writer. I know to say I'm a writer. I shut her inside
[00:14:16] Yeah, it's like everybody knows better
[00:14:18] Yeah, but I have a good editing team. Yes because I need it. Yeah, like I need I don't need micro editors
[00:14:27] I need macro
[00:14:29] I need people to like rewrite my words because I have a tendency to write like I speak and
[00:14:34] Teaching writing for teaching and writing for someone to read is completely different
[00:14:40] Can you explain like maybe the differences in that? Yeah, um
[00:14:45] I definitely edit for sure. Like I don't mind
[00:14:49] I like when my women say oh when I'm reading I can hear you
[00:14:53] Because it's personal enough that they can hear me
[00:14:56] But like you said there it needs to be a lot of editing so I think like you
[00:15:01] I have someone who reads all the verses to make sure I didn't quote something weird
[00:15:04] Which I usually have you know, you skip a two or a one and whoa that verse is weird
[00:15:08] So they look those up. I have ones that are very good grammar
[00:15:13] And then they do that so I have two or three that also do it
[00:15:16] And then they give it back to me or they change a sentence structure or things like that
[00:15:21] And sometimes I like what they changed and sometimes I didn't so I always go back and look what they change
[00:15:26] And I know I was telling you one time I was in a writers critique group and trying to get something published
[00:15:32] I also write devotions for women and there was a time period in a season in my life that I was submitting them to get
[00:15:39] Published and stuff. So I went to a writers critique group a christian writers critique group in town
[00:15:45] And man, they're they're brutal. Oh my gosh, they're brutal and they're sit there with their red pens
[00:15:49] And you've spent hours on this baby and they're you know
[00:15:53] Smashing apart you're like, oh well anyways, I had a title of one that I really liked my title
[00:15:57] I thought it was catchy and the whole group was like you got to ditch this title. No christian
[00:16:03] Group will call it that
[00:16:05] And I'm like, no, I like the title. No, you can't do it and
[00:16:09] All the red marks on it and I went home and I prayed about it and prayed about it
[00:16:11] And I thought I don't I don't like their critique and I'm gonna stick with it and it got published right away
[00:16:17] like
[00:16:18] So you have to listen to the lord you look at the edits
[00:16:21] I mean if it's grammar, you got to do the right grammar but
[00:16:24] About writing they say you have to know the rules you can break the rules, but you have to know you're breaking them and
[00:16:32] You just can't be lame and just write whatever and so I edit at church for a lot of different things too
[00:16:37] And so again when you're editing you got to make sure you're not changing their voice
[00:16:41] So that's a whole another beast in itself
[00:16:43] But I think learning too to use um and the commentary thing to go back to
[00:16:48] I include commentary sometimes more than others
[00:16:52] It depends what book i'm writing if i'm writing an old testament book that has a lot of history or something that
[00:16:57] I end up doing more the one and others
[00:17:00] Hasn't had to have a lot of commentary except just leading maybe from question to question but um
[00:17:07] I'm learning how still after all these years to what I can say
[00:17:12] In 20 words don't use 50. It's good to be descriptive
[00:17:16] But overly descriptive is just like just stop just say what you mean and so
[00:17:20] Learning how to do that and if you take that sentence out do I need that sentence?
[00:17:26] so
[00:17:28] Yeah, uh exactly and I I think talking about editing
[00:17:32] I think we have to have thick skin too because I feel like um in editing
[00:17:37] Um it's kind of like someone telling your babies ugly
[00:17:42] It kind of hurts a little bit
[00:17:44] Um, well because it's like it's your baby. Yeah time and everything in this. Yes. And so
[00:17:48] For me we do it with a team
[00:17:51] Yeah
[00:17:51] And so in the spring I'll usually write like in winter and and i'm trying to develop a writing team because I also think that
[00:17:58] I want to disciple people to be able to write I've done it with teaching and that's worked out really well
[00:18:03] I have a large teaching team and I wanted to do it with writing and so we get together as a group
[00:18:09] and
[00:18:10] I have people in there that are you know really know the word
[00:18:14] We have a couple of editors and then we just so we do the home. We actually do the homework
[00:18:20] Yeah, and go through it and then they can say well like I didn't get this question
[00:18:24] Right the way you ask exactly. Do you mean? Yeah, what were you looking at here?
[00:18:28] We might rewrite it and you do have to like
[00:18:31] You have to be ready to say I care more
[00:18:35] About this study. Yeah
[00:18:38] Um
[00:18:39] For the ladies then I do yes for my own ego, right like it's not about that
[00:18:44] It's about getting a study better and if you're willing
[00:18:47] They'll actually make your study better, right? You know, yeah
[00:18:51] So then they'll handle the grammar things and in the way they want to rewrite and
[00:18:55] Sometimes they'll want to read structure sentence and it's like yeah, but it's lost its meaning
[00:18:59] So you have as the author the ability to go no. I want to leave that. Yes
[00:19:03] Let's go for that. But it was funny because I have I've had this group a couple of times
[00:19:09] You know for several years now and they've always been just free to critique it well
[00:19:16] This year I've had a lot of them, right and the first girls was like they came in she goes. Oh my goodness
[00:19:22] I I've never thought about it from this perspective that I'm gonna be the one at the table
[00:19:26] That everybody's gonna be critiquing and she said I've just shared freely all these years
[00:19:31] About your study so so we do have to put on that that thick skin
[00:19:35] So what's you know, what's your when we're talking about like maybe goals?
[00:19:40] What are what are your goals when you're writing?
[00:19:44] What are some of the things like that you think about when you open up a book and you start are you just sort of
[00:19:50] Going through the book and just drawing out what the text says initially
[00:19:55] What's that like what I'm studying what I'm getting right when you're just your process like okay, you're gonna go write a study
[00:20:03] Right. What do you do? Right? What do you do first pray? Yeah
[00:20:07] Seek the Lord pray cry do all that I usually walk around the table of zilling times before I start starting is very difficult for me
[00:20:14] I don't know if you find that once I'm in the groove
[00:20:16] I'm good
[00:20:17] But the actual starting like the first lesson of every year
[00:20:21] It's really difficult for me because I think it's so overwhelming. Where am I taking it? Where am I going?
[00:20:26] What's my end goal? So I think it's looking at the book and again depending what you're looking pray
[00:20:31] What is my heart in this? What is my and like you said?
[00:20:35] I'm always I want them to think inductively in their head
[00:20:38] Even automatically if you if you write that way you get them to do that. So
[00:20:43] Where do I want where what is the main point the big idea as far as the whole thing
[00:20:49] We have memory verses every week and so I want to make making sure if you're pulling out with the main verses of that chapter
[00:20:56] You want to make sure you're supporting that?
[00:20:59] And so I think if you're doing a book again, you're just I think
[00:21:04] the first
[00:21:06] Getting the main idea of what the book trying to say
[00:21:10] And then breaking it down into smaller sections like you said the the overview
[00:21:14] I know we do that of every chapter but we start with taking the overview of the whole book
[00:21:19] And then breaking it down chapter by chapter. So I'm sure you do that too. So it's just like a flyby
[00:21:25] so sometimes the first one is hard because
[00:21:28] I'll have them read the whole book not everybody likes that
[00:21:30] L they might have one or two weeks to do it and so that when they're in chapter one
[00:21:35] They're already seen how this is tying into chapter six or whatever and then we're breaking it down
[00:21:40] I think that and making sure that I understand
[00:21:44] What's uh, who the author is what's the author's intent?
[00:21:47] What was his purpose in writing this book because I want to make sure that I'm getting across the author's purpose, right?
[00:21:54] of of what
[00:21:56] I don't want to grandstand. I don't want to make sure that I'm getting my own agenda in there
[00:22:01] I want to make sure that I know his agenda. I'm not saying don't ever use application from your own life
[00:22:06] But it needs to support what the text is saying. So I think I just have the notepad
[00:22:11] I have the paper I'm the yellow pad person and I just make tons of notes and I find my keywords in the whole book
[00:22:18] And um, how does that chapter support that chapter?
[00:22:22] Is that I'm pretty similar to what you do. Um
[00:22:26] Bro for really similar
[00:22:28] I think for me
[00:22:30] The way that I'm doing it right now and it always changes but right now
[00:22:33] Day one, I'll say if you I'll do day one and five to me are usually always the same for every chapter
[00:22:39] So we'll start every chapter kind of asking the question right now my question sometimes I change them
[00:22:44] But right now it's if you had to tell somebody what this chapter was about
[00:22:48] How would you explain it just so they could get it into their own words?
[00:22:52] And then what are some of the major themes?
[00:22:54] Words that stick out to you phrases
[00:22:57] Verses like just kind of let them highlight some things
[00:23:01] Then we just break it up and go into days two three and four and just basic observation interpretation
[00:23:06] I don't do a lot of any like personal commentary
[00:23:10] In in my studies like there's no it's just basic question answer, but I hate filling the blank
[00:23:18] Questions. I'm not a fan. I just
[00:23:20] It's like i'm dumber now. Yeah, like don't ask me to put
[00:23:24] Something in the line like I just don't it's not my thing. Yeah, but and I'm sure it's not yours either
[00:23:29] We've talked about that. It's like that just yeah, don't do that so
[00:23:34] But basic observation questions interpretation application and then day five will switch it up sometimes we've done a digging deeper
[00:23:41] For people who want to go further or going further. You can call it whatever you want
[00:23:46] This year i'm gonna have them do
[00:23:50] Take a theme from this week or something god is
[00:23:54] Sharing with you and write it out into a prayer like kind of journal through it. That'll be day five
[00:24:00] So we change it up. I like changing things up
[00:24:04] But um, I try to have more personal sounds like you. I mean, I don't write it all about myself
[00:24:08] But I do have some personal applications in mind
[00:24:12] Like you tell stories about you like give an example
[00:24:16] Yeah, but like like to this week we're studying be hospitable to one another
[00:24:22] And so as i'm drawing it out of them we look at it. What does it mean? Look at scripture?
[00:24:27] Who did it and then um, if they had to think of someone in their life that
[00:24:33] When you think of someone hospitable, who would you think of and why?
[00:24:36] And so then I follow that up with a paragraph about who I chose and why which was my grandma and how she made me feel
[00:24:43] And this and that and it's just a paragraph. It's not long but um, I
[00:24:48] Maybe i'm more prone to do that than than you are and it depends on the lesson and what the questions are but
[00:24:54] Sometimes it helps them see sometimes they can't figure out how to apply it
[00:24:59] And then if you give an example, they're like, oh, yeah, that's really good
[00:25:03] A lot of people ask how many questions do you put in per day because we do per day
[00:25:09] We do five days of homework. Yeah, um, but how many questions do you think are enough?
[00:25:15] Not enough. I've kind of come to my sweet spot. What's yours? Well, I started with doing. Oh my gosh
[00:25:20] I was a hundred. Yeah, like why are there 750 questions? It might have been 15 for goodness sake and then it landed
[00:25:27] I know then it landed on um 10 and there was uh five days and
[00:25:33] But it has shortened and this year this past year. I've changed it
[00:25:37] I don't even break it down in today's anymore. We experiment with that and it's actually working very well where it's just uh
[00:25:45] About 20 questions and without breaking day you do as long as you want
[00:25:49] I'm a person. I'd rather sit down one day and just do it because my head's in it missing that
[00:25:53] And sometimes the day break and I don't know the ladies have really responded to that. Well, so this year
[00:25:59] I took the day I took the days out and I did um let them I had a memory verse
[00:26:04] But each leader figured out how they wanted to bring that to the table
[00:26:08] You know because before it would be like every day was like, you know practice your ver
[00:26:12] You know the typical one and I just thought I'm I'm just changing this up this year
[00:26:17] And they've really responded to it. So that's what's your sweet spot
[00:26:20] I like to do between like three and five
[00:26:24] Occasionally, I'll go to six or seven
[00:26:26] depending but then
[00:26:28] I'm I've kind of
[00:26:30] Like realized that sometimes I'll have like three questions in one. Yeah, so you're still getting your 15 in
[00:26:37] But there's a thought process like it's a progression. It's not like three separate questions
[00:26:41] Yes, but I do have a tendency to ask a few questions in yes in one place one of the things that
[00:26:50] Something that I just learned like this week
[00:26:53] This month with having other people, right?
[00:26:57] Um is that I realized that when I was writing studies
[00:27:01] um sometimes
[00:27:02] We have a tendency to
[00:27:05] Want to study the texts that we're going through
[00:27:08] um to teach
[00:27:10] And I wondered if it was necessary like when I go to study to write
[00:27:16] What I found with some of my ladies is they were studying it so much kind of like you studied to teach
[00:27:21] That it almost became too much because then I wasn't asking the questions
[00:27:25] That you would when you first look at the text like what kind of questions am I asking?
[00:27:31] So then it ended up being like I studied so much
[00:27:35] Now I'm asking questions based on my knowledge
[00:27:38] That I've studied based then then it was different just being on the text
[00:27:43] And so I try not to actually study a ton because the key is asking good questions
[00:27:50] It's not so much about
[00:27:52] Me knowing the information. It's me asking good questions about the text
[00:27:57] And so I've been I I just realized I've been
[00:28:00] Doing that so I got to share that with my group like if you study too deeply
[00:28:05] You tend to take people on your own journey and then you also tend to write questions based on
[00:28:10] Um knowledge were except for not just based on like what they're seeing right in the text
[00:28:15] So good questions and then a progression through those questions like
[00:28:20] Transitions like I'm on idolatry. You know, maybe stay that I don't know why I'm talking about
[00:28:25] So much to say she just was my first example
[00:28:30] Maybe I got issues every day
[00:28:32] But um, so what do you think about that? Does that does that ring true?
[00:28:37] I don't know. That's true. I think that's the same with teaching as well as well to over study
[00:28:42] Um
[00:28:44] This is hard too. So like sometimes if you
[00:28:47] I guess I'm jumping into teaching but you tell someone they have 20 minutes to share
[00:28:51] And with you over study, they can't keep it to under an hour
[00:28:54] You know, it's just that that's a danger and sometimes writing shorter is even harder than writing longer because you're not explaining
[00:29:01] You have to be more specific. But no, I think you're right, especially if you're not one who's writing any commentary in it
[00:29:09] That would be harder if I'm writing more commentary then maybe I can do that a little bit more if I've
[00:29:16] Uh, depending on what I've kind of lay a foundation. Yeah, I've laid that foundation
[00:29:21] So it really depends what the rest of your study
[00:29:23] I think looks like to me a lot of these questions are it just depends what I'm writing and what
[00:29:30] Uh, if what kind of book uh, new a lot of times new testament ones are easier for the ladies to grasp than old testament old testament ones have been
[00:29:40] Typically involve more commentary
[00:29:43] Because I do want to write it because if they don't use if they're not comfortable using a commentary
[00:29:48] I still want them to get a basic grasp of it. So I'm going to include something
[00:29:54] so
[00:29:55] Yeah, a lot of it is just it just depends
[00:29:59] Yeah, what's the hardest thing that you found about writing?
[00:30:05] The hardest thing
[00:30:08] Making sure I don't know. I guess maybe it's in my own
[00:30:12] Making sure that it's what god's wanting me to say and not what I want to say
[00:30:16] Even just this one another I really struggled because I changed the format some and it was different for me
[00:30:23] Is this what the lord wants?
[00:30:25] Am I just doing it? Am I making it shorter? This was a big struggle for me this year. Am I making it shorter because I'm lazy or because
[00:30:34] I'm really supposed to and that's what the lord wants me to do. Am I saying this because of it like
[00:30:39] Maybe it's am I projecting my own personal life and experiences
[00:30:42] Yeah, and I'm tired and I have a shorter amount of time. So am I doing that?
[00:30:47] So I think I think that's I think one of the hardest things for me every year is where what book am I doing now?
[00:30:53] We've done almost all the New Testament, but I'm not always that systematic
[00:30:57] About sounds like maybe you are on what follows what and so
[00:31:02] What am I supposed to write? What am I supposed to do? I think that's the hardest and the first week
[00:31:07] That's always I think anything anything. I've ever written. I just walk around the house for like hours
[00:31:14] Right thinking through it. Yeah, or doing other things to distract myself because I just feel like
[00:31:19] I don't want to start wrong. Yeah, I don't know like I need to sit down and write. Oh
[00:31:25] Get the dishes. I need to sit down and write. I do have a love hate relationship
[00:31:29] I don't know about you with writing. I love to write and I hate to write at the same time
[00:31:33] I'm not so many people in that critique group that I was in for years
[00:31:37] It's like they would say I can't go to bed until I've written some words like they're like word nerds
[00:31:42] I never felt like that I don't feel like that but if the lord gives me something
[00:31:46] I need to write it right then and um, and so
[00:31:51] I don't always like writing but I like to have written
[00:31:56] I don't know if that makes sense. I read that quote once and I thought that that's true at the end
[00:32:00] I'm really glad and full of joy and blessed at what God did, but I don't always enjoy the process
[00:32:07] It's hard. I have to have it on my calendar
[00:32:09] So I have to have study even for teaching. I have to have like blocked out on my calendar
[00:32:15] This is what I'm going to do this lesson. This is what I'm going to do that
[00:32:18] This is when I need to sit down and write this is the due date because if it's not on my calendar
[00:32:23] It it's going to get squeezed out and then I can't do it
[00:32:26] But then sometimes you write it on your calendar
[00:32:28] I know that you've experienced this and the lord just not giving it to you that no
[00:32:31] And you're like I just like each last night at church and I had a very busy week
[00:32:36] And so I scheduled it like he said and one day
[00:32:39] I mean I just sat there and stared at my paper and just thought lord
[00:32:42] I know I need it right now, but it it don't sound like you're giving it to me
[00:32:46] I'll have to I'll have to figure this out and so scheduling is great
[00:32:50] But it didn't always work out that way or he gives it to 3 a.m. Sometimes I'll text I'll text myself
[00:32:57] Yeah, because I need to you know, I need to know it or I'll throw it in my notes
[00:33:02] But usually I'll text it to myself like okay remember this
[00:33:05] I have notepads everywhere. Oh, I know just right next to my bed
[00:33:08] Like I have no pads everywhere legal pads, but I do the texting to myself on points or oh, yeah
[00:33:15] I do that a lot
[00:33:16] So if I would say look if you are just beginning to write take the risk
[00:33:21] Just just throw it out there write a chapter
[00:33:25] Write a devotional right just write something have people read it get a group that you trust
[00:33:30] To read it and sit down with you and say did you understand it?
[00:33:33] What did god show you you'll know if people are going wow god really spoke to me
[00:33:38] That's the best thing people can say to me. Wow. God really spoke to me through this day through this question
[00:33:44] This is what he showed me that's that's warms my heart and and that is what I want to happen
[00:33:51] So I would say just try it. Yeah, I could have really easily just discounted it and moved on
[00:33:58] Because I'm I'm I'm not even joking when I say I'm not a writer. I'm not right
[00:34:02] But imagine somebody laughing at you when you finally told somebody
[00:34:06] Talk about that. Then people laugh at me all the time
[00:34:10] I laugh at myself
[00:34:12] Um, but but I think yeah just getting getting pen to paper
[00:34:16] sitting down giving in a whirl
[00:34:18] And just trying it trying it just trying to take that risk jump do it scared
[00:34:23] That's our because it takes practice even if you're called it takes practice
[00:34:27] Look how long we've been doing it and the things that we've learned over the years anything
[00:34:31] Any gift that god's given you
[00:34:34] As you do it longer you learn how to do it better that and he should be so
[00:34:39] You got to start somewhere. Yeah
[00:34:41] And with someone you trust and if you on are as the listener are the one who's critiquing somebody's especially when they're new
[00:34:47] Be gentle and do it with grace and
[00:34:50] But be truthful be truthful. Don't laugh at them
[00:34:54] But you know, just don't tell them they have an ugly baby. Tell me how ugly baby, but um
[00:34:58] Just use grace because it's hard especially in the beginning
[00:35:01] Well, it's very vulnerable because you're putting your your thoughts on paper
[00:35:05] For everybody to read and seeing can and it can be vulnerable writing a book is different
[00:35:10] Yeah, we're talking about bible studies and maybe we'll talk about that
[00:35:13] Another time because that's a different sort of kettle of fish in itself. Well, thank you for this conversation. Kelly
[00:35:20] This is so great. Yeah, thank you for joining us today
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